Why I Don't Care What People Think Of Me

Hey guys!

I haven't done a lifestyle post in sooo long and with the rain outside, it's the perfect day for tea, blankets and blogging ha.

Basically I would describe myself as marmite; people either love me or hate me.

I personally love me hahaa. I'm 24 next month and I've got to a point in my life where what people think or say to me doesn't affect me. I guess on a bad day it can sometimes, I mean we can't be strong all the time.

I'm a bubbly person, loud, short, always up for going out, but one main thing about me is what you see is what you get. Basically, i'm not a people pleaser.

If your nice to me and I like you, I will be the best of friends to you. If I don't get a good vibe from you, i'll just back away and do my thing. I'm not immature or childish though, i'll always be civil.

Your not going to be everyone's cup of tea and people, especially girls lets face it, like to hate over jealousy. This is something I've always had, but it doesn't bother me anymore. As long as you're confident and happy within yourself that's all that matters!

No matter who you are, what you have, what you look like, there will always be someone that doesn't like you.

They say as you get older, your circle gets smaller. Its true. Not everyone's your friend or has the best intentions for you. It's better to have fewer real friends than tonnes of fake ones.

Do you care much about what people think of you? Let me know! :)

P.s - I just created an Instagram account for my blog! You can follow me here and i will follow back :)

S x


  1. You go girl! It can be so hard to not car what others think, and it's definitely something I'm working on!xx

    Hannah | luxuryblush

  2. Loved reading this post! It's totally true your circle does get smaller and I think everyone needs to stop being bothered about what others are doing. There's a quote I love which is " Remind yourself, you don't have to be doing what everyone else is doing".

    LAURA ­| Laura Thinks About

  3. Your personality sounds like fun. I also love going out and having a great time with friends.


  4. Liked reading your post ! I agree with it !
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  5. my favourite quote in the whole entire WORLD is that peach one! i have used it sooo many times in conversations with friends and swear to god i live my life by it! i've had it framed on my wall since as far back as i can remember.

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  6. It took me a lot of years to not care about what people think of me, and some days it's still difficult, but I manage to try to be as positive and selflove as I can. This was a lovely reminder and I am so glad you feel that way about yourself :)


  7. I used to be such a people pleaser but I've changed for the most part (still some work to be done). Knowing that not everyone is going to like me was a bitter pill to swallow but that's life for you. I agree, being confident in yourself is all that matters. I believe in being kind to everyone I meet and just being myself. Great post! xx
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  8. I love what you said and I'm so with you! I would love to don't care about what people think but sometimes I'm really touched by these thoughts and I have to try on it! Thank you for sharing!



  9. Too true!!! It's important to remember that someone will always hate peaches :D

    xx Sofia | SOFIAADOT

  10. That's so true, and I think that we cannot be loved by everyone, so just let's be ourselves. Those who appreciate us will stay around!

  11. I love that quote at the end. I've had a really small circle of friends since high school days. I try to avoid those who give me a bad vibe or make me uncomfortable. It's better to avoid them than to pretend to favour them or try to fit in with them.

    Girl on the Tamarind Hill

    1. Aww me too, my circle is from college xx

  12. I totally agree with you! You can not please everyone! There was a time when I used to get affected but now I have stopped caring! Loved your post!

    1. I'm so glad you've stopped letting it bother you! :) x

  13. This is such an inspiring post! Yes yes yes, always just be you (obviously that's easier said than done sometimes). The people who truly click with you will stay around and the people don't... well... buh-bye. Love this post!!!

    🍉 Pia

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  15. So true, when you're growing up you pretty much care about how many friends you have but don't realise it's not the amount of friends you have but what kind of bond you have with them and before you know it they're not your friends but your acquaintances x Sam

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  16. I agree with you about being cool with who you are. Life is too short to be anyone else and anyone who doesn't appreciate you should fall by the wayside. It is very true that when you get older your circle gets smaller I most definitely can attest to that.

  17. Haha, love how you describe yourself as Marmite babe - though loving even more that you love yourself, that's such an important thing to discover in your twenties! Speaking of which, we're both turning 24 next month! :)

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  18. YOU GO GIRL! We really can't please anyone, so by the words of Taylor Swift "haters gonna hate hate hate, so shake it off" :D

    xx Alyssa // STYLE VANITY

  19. So true! It's great that you know this at age 24! Great post!


  20. It took me a little longer than you but I no longer worry about what people think of me! "I can only be me, whoever that is" Think that's a Bob Dylan quote.
    I like to live by the rule of treating people how you would have them treat you

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  21. I guess the older we get, the more we realize that you can't please everyone. Just like you say, there will be always someone, who doesn't like something - so being yourself is the key! xx

    Naya // www.partyparrotblog.com

  22. I like this post, so spontaneous and honest. I actually care what people think about me but because I can't do anything about it so I just let it go. It's true, my circle of friends has gone smaller so I'm thankful with my old friends from long ago who are still around for me. Great post!!!


  23. I needed to read this! I need to learn not to care because you're right--there's always going to be someone who doesn't like me.

  24. This post is just so honest and a lot of people can learn from it. Nobody should care what other people would think of them. One should always be themselves and be happy for themselves. :)

    Angelie // Gem in Nueva Ecija: Minalungao National Park

  25. Great post! Have a lovely weekend

    Gemma x

  26. It is so important to care for yourself and to love yourself before you can truly love another. I love this post and thinking about it I'm probably Marmite too. At the age of 29 I have finally realised I don't care what other people thing. Good for you for coming to that realisation at an earlier age! English Lass in LA xxx

  27. True shelise, coz we couldn't please everyone;) Great post!


  28. i agree with this post dear..


  29. This is 100% true and you get to an age when it becomes a lightbulb moment and you no longer care!
    Love Hannah x || HannahHawes

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