5 Signs He Won't Wife You #BoyBye

Don't you love that excited feeling you get when you're talking to a potential bae? In some cases, it doesn't last more than a few days, those are the worst! But when it does, how do you know if you're wasting your time?

1. He makes you wonder if he's still interested
- If a guy likes you, you will know.

2. He only ever wants to chill
- We all love chilling and having a cuddle etc. But a guy that genuinely likes you will want to be making memories outside as well as in. If he only wants to be chilling, we know what he really wants.
Guys will say lines like "what's the difference between chilling in a house or outside?" There's a big difference. And I don't need to be at yours. If you don't like it #bye - don't be scared to stand your ground incase he walks away, trust me - he's not going to walk away if he wants you, if anything it will make him stay.

3. He says "I'm not ready for a relationship yet, but I want to see how things go with us"
- What they really mean is, I want to let you think this may go somewhere so I can have fun with you.
Of course, if you want to have fun then go ahead, but "friends with benefits" doesn't mean they will end up liking/committing to you. Also, they aren't our friend.

4. He's longing out the commitment
- Have you ever seen those guys that say they don't want a girl, their a player and fuckboy and next min out of nowhere, their all wifed up and in love. Let me tell you, if a guy REALLY likes you, he IS GOING TO WIFE YOU. Ready or not, he will do it, he's not about to let you go. If he's longing it, he isn't serious, he's wasting your time. Tell him bye.

5. Playing games
- Honestlyyy, what is with our generation and games?! A guy that is interested is not about to be playing games, he will let you know he wants you, and not want to lose you.

What signs do you think shows a guy won't commit?
S x


  1. That's true to be honest... if a guy reallly likes you then you shouldn't need to worry about if he's interested or not!
    Aleeha xXx

    1. Defo, if they like you they will show it and you won't need to worry, S x

  2. Today's generation makes it seem like everything's a game, it's really sad. I would give in tips but I've been with my bf for five years now and he's my only bf ever so I wouldn't even know what to say xD

    1. I know especially with social media etc it's all so many games, S x

  3. Absolutely everything you wrote is so right. I don't why a guy that simply wants to hang and not have a serious relationship can't just say that instead of trying to lead a girl on etc. A lot of girls are not just looking to commit as many guys may think. Some just want to have fun too, no need to hurt innocents girls feelings.
    I can't wait for part 2, I really enjoyed this one :)
    Have a great weekend dear :)
    Sauniya | Find Your Bliss ♡

    1. Yeah exactly, if they are just upfront and honest I can respect it, but messing with people's feelings is just the worst, aww thanks you to :) S x

  4. Oh I remember too many of these from my teenage years. So much drama and confusion!


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  6. I love this post!!! I need to pin this to my wall before I start getting back on the dating horse! Xx

  7. The post is great! I love your blog:)


  8. I totally agree with these points. At the end of the day if a guy is interested, he will show interest!
    Guys play games just as much as girls lol

    Love these type lifestyle/dating posts..:)

    LAURA ­| Laura Thinks About

  9. This is so true! If a man is serious about you, he will let you know it. There is no wondering about it.

  10. Love this post!! Everything you say is so right ahah love the hashtag #boybye too <3


  11. #1 is so true. You'll definitely know . And #3 is so so annoying, hate it when guys do that. xx

  12. Love this post! All of these are so true. Especially the part where they only want to chill... like no. I don't want to become a cave woman. Let's just go somewhere for effs sake.

    -Leta | The Nerdy Me

  13. OMG, I am so guilty of hanging around desperately for the guy to confirm the relationship with me. I was a very young and foolish girl though and oh boy, do I cringe when I think back at how stupid I was. LOL!

    Shireen | Reflection of Sanity

  14. I really enjoyed reading this, did make me chuckle a little bit! Also I agree with all of these things!!!


  15. Love posts like this, 100% agree with it! Luckily my boyfriend doesn't apply to these so maybe one day!

    Lauren x Huggled

  16. So true, seems so simple to think 'i've he's into you, you'll know' but it's true. Or if you don't think he is because he's acting like he isn't (even if he secretly is and is trying to play it cool) you still know it's not right because you don't need someone who is more into acting cool than being genuine. Great post chick! xx Sarah from Iheartcosmetics xx


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